Rod’s Ramblins
It's Not Just
A Job--It's An Adventure!

There’s an old story
about two warring tribes in the Andes, one that lived in the lowlands
and the other high in the mountains. The mountain people invaded the
lowlanders one day, and as part of their plundering of the people, they
kidnapped a baby of one of the lowlander families and took the infant
with them back up into the mountains.
The lowlanders didn't know how
to climb the mountain. They didn't know any of the trails that the mountain
people used, and they didn't know where to find the mountain people
or how to track them in the steep terrain. Even so, they sent out their
best party of fighting men to climb the mountain and bring the baby
home.
The men tried first one method of climbing and then another. They tried
one trail and then another. After several days of effort, however, they
had climbed only a couple of hundred feet. Feeling hopeless and helpless,
the lowlander men decided that the cause was lost, and they prepared
to return to their village below.
As they were packing their gear for the descent, they saw the baby's
mother walking toward them. They realized that she was coming down the
mountain that they hadn't figured out how to climb. And then they saw
that she had the baby strapped to her back. How could that be? One man
greeted her and said, "We couldn't climb this mountain. How did
you do this when we, the strongest and most able men in the village,
couldn't do it?" She shrugged her shoulders and said, "It
wasn't your baby."
This month we honor
our mothers, and rightly so. One thing we all have in common, is that
we each have a mother. And all through this life, she will always be
your mother, and you will always be her “baby”. You will
always be so precious to her that she would give up anything or climb
any mountain for you. Proverbs 23:25 gives us this bit of wisdom:
“May your father and mother be glad; may she who
gave you birth rejoice!”
Let’s remember, whether we’re relying on Mom to take care
of us, or Mom is relying on us to take care of her, to honor her through
our lives, our examples, and our families.
Because I care,
Rod
(APRIL)
KEEP THE CHANGE???

We hear a lot about “CHANGE”
these days. And if you’ve lived very long, you’ve already
seen a lot of “CHANGE”. Sadly, we cannot say that it all
has been good. I admit, there is need for “CHANGE”, but
if it’s not scriptural or the will of God, I’m afraid it’s
not going to be good “CHANGE”. It seems like every day there
is more corruption, immorality, and godlessness filling our nation.
And the worst part is that it is disguised as “CHANGE”.
At first we abhor it, then we allow it, then we embrace it! I can’t
take credit for this article, but I wish I could. I think it pretty
well hits the nail on the head!
IF I WERE THE DEVIL By Paul Harvey
I would gain control of the most powerful nation in the world
I would delude their minds into thinking that they had come from man's
effort, instead of God's blessings
I would promote an attitude of loving things and using people, instead
of the other way around
I would dupe entire states into relying on gambling for their state
revenue
I would convince people that character is not an issue when it comes
to leadership
I would make it legal to take the life of unborn babies
I would make it socially acceptable to take one's own life, and invent
machines to make it convenient
I would cheapen human life as much as possible so that life of animals
are valued more than human beings
I would take God out of the schools, where even the mention of His name
was grounds for a lawsuit
I would come up with drugs that sedate the mind and target the young,
and I would get sports heroes to advertise them
I would get control of the media, so that every night I could pollute
the minds of every family member for my agenda
I would attack the family, the backbone of any nation. If the family
crumbles, so does the nation
I would make divorce acceptable and easy, even fashionable
I would compel people to express their most depraved fantasies on canvas
and movies screens, and I would call it art
I would convince the world that people are born homosexuals, and that
their lifestyles should be accepted and marveled
I would persuade people that the church is irrelevant and out of date,
and that the Bible is for the naive
I would convince the people that right and wrong are determined by a
few who call themselves authorities and refer to
their agendas as politically correct
I would dull the minds of Christians, and make them believe that prayer
is not important, and that faithfulness and
obedience are optional
I GUESS I WOULD LEAVE THINGS PRETTY MUCH THE WAY THEY ARE!

Sad but true, isn’t it? Many
of us have seen these things happen right before our eyes. It’s
a downward spiral that we continue to allow. Christian people seem to
be the only ones with no right to speak out any more, even if our speech
is based on God’s Word. This week, you have a chance to stand
up for what we know is right according to that Word. I hope to see you
in the Rotunda at the State Capitol in support of State Representative
Sally Kern and free speech this Wednesday, April 2, at noon. I think
Satan’s had his way long enough, and it’s time to make a
real “CHANGE”.
Because I care,
Rod
(MARCH)
FORWARD WITH FUSION!
While realizing the threat
of losing your interest, I’m going to start this annual report
talking about thermonuclear energy, but please bear with me. There are
just two ways to create it—FUSION and FISSION. Do you remember
the difference from science or physics class? FUSION is described as
a merging, or the state of being combined into one body, while FISSION
is divisive or the act of splitting into parts. Both processes have
a simultaneous release of energy, but are achieved by different means.
Both can be productive and both can also be destructive. So what am
I getting at?
I continue to be encouraged by so many evidences of “energy”
here at NCC. And I see the cause of that energy to be FUSION. One of
my favorite passages is in Ephesians, where Paul assures us that we
have all been given different gifts “to
prepare God’s people for works of service so that the body of
Christ may be built up until we all reach unity in the faith and in
the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the
whole measure of the fullness of Christ.” (4:12-13)
I may be biased, but I think you would look far and wide to find a body
of believers who better demonstrate this passage. God has wonderfully
blessed us with a diversity of talented, faithful, dedicated servants.
I praise God for every one of you, and my prayer is that we continue
to work together in FUSION and release energy in the form of contagious
Christianity!
I really couldn’t tell you if we have grown that much in numbers
over the last few years. I’ve come to the conclusion that really
isn’t what we should be striving for. Certainly, we are called
to evangelize, but it seems to me that the Word also focuses strongly
on our individual growth. We need to build solid relationships, strong
families, and steadfast leaders. We need elders and deacons to stand
up and lead in spiritual matters. We need members to lead others to
Christ through invitation and example. We need parents to lead their
children in the right direction. That’s when the FUSION takes
place and the energy is generated!
But please beware! I see our adversary wanting to cause destructive
energy released through FISSION, and he will be doing his best to implement
that divisiveness. The best way to combat that is to keep studying,
praying, and growing, and to restrain those urges of selfishness and
stubbornness that bring on disharmony and discord.
I’ve seen many evidences of “WET FEET” throughout
the year, and while I want to encourage you to continue in your service
and involvement, our new focus for 2008 will be to
“FEED
YOUR HUNGER”
If you’re only being
fed with spiritual nutrition from God’s Word one hour a week,
it’s time to gorge yourself and generate a little energy!
“Carefully
study to present thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not
to be ashamed, rightly handling the word of truth.” 2 Timothy
2:15
Because I care,
Rod
(FEBRUARY)
Nearsighted, Farsighted, or just Blind?
Did you see the cartoon
depicting the two Eskimo fishermen? They had both cut their holes in
the ice, and were holding their poles patiently. There is no caption,
and you might say, “So, what’s so funny?” The humor
comes in the two holes in the ice. While the one expectant fisherman
had cut a small circular hole, the other had cut a huge opening in the
shape of a whale extending to the horizon!
Proverbs 29:18 says: “Where there is no vision, the people
perish.”
I am guilty, and possibly you are too, of being a little nearsighted
like the first fisherman. I don’t have great expectations because
I really don’t believe anything too monumental is going to happen.
A Gallup pole says that in 10 years, 40% of our churches will no longer
exist. Why? There may be many factors, but I believe the main reason
to be lack of vision. We can’t see beyond our limited, blinded
resources. Therefore, we are content to merely “exist” as
we watch things deteriorate around us.
Four bricklayers were being interviewed as they went about their work
on a large project. Each was asked the same simple question: “What
are you doing?” Here are the four different answers:
I’m just putting
in my time.
I’m laying this brick.
I’m building this wall.
I’m helping construct this mansion!
Where there is no vision, the people perish. Are you content to just
put in your time? Or are you helping construct the mansion? We see all
the signs that we are living in the last days. There are many who are
not prepared for eternity. We all need to have our poles in the water,
being “fishers of men”. But first, answer this question…
“How big is your hole in the ice?”
Because I care,
Rod
(JANUARY)
TIME WILL
TELL...
I’m sure you’ve noticed
that each year almost all the major news magazines put out an issue
with special pictorial sections recalling people and events that made
news during the previous year. And, of course, this year the events
of the war in Iraq, global warming, and the presidential race dominated
the news reviews of 2007, and are sure to make the lists. Many of the
magazines also include articles by experts predicting what they expect
to see happening in the years ahead. Some even go so far as to make
predictions covering 10, 20, or more years in the future. In the past,
a few of these predictions have proven amazingly accurate, while others
couldn’t have been more wrong.
For example, back in 1967, experts predicted that by the turn of the
century technology would have taken over so much of the work we do that
the average American work week would be only 22 hours long, and that
we would work only 27 weeks a year. As a result, one of our biggest
problems would be in deciding what to do with all our leisure time.
Well, I don’t know about you, but that prediction certainly missed
the mark as far as my life was concerned!
So here we are, at the start of 2008. I wonder how we’ll do this
year. Will we be as busy? Will we make any better use of our time? At
this time next year, will we be looking back with joy, or with regret?
Will we be looking at the future with anticipation, or with dread?
There is a passage of Scripture that I believe can be of help to us
as we look forward to the rest of 2008--if we’ll listen to it.
The passage is Ephesians 5:15-17, and here is what it says,
"Be very careful, then, how you live - not as unwise but
as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are
evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord’s
will is."
First of all, we must be very careful how we live because our time on
this earth is limited. The Psalmist wrote, "Show me, O
Lord, my life’s end and the number of my days; let me know how
fleeting is my life" (Psalm 39:4). And then again, "The
length of our days is 70 years or 80, if we have the strength...they
quickly pass, and we fly away" (Psalm 90:10).
Now, I realize that for some of you younger folk, 70 or 80 years sounds
like a long, long time. In fact, I can remember when I thought anyone
over 50 was ancient. But no longer! It is all rather relative, isn’t
it?
For example, for teenagers in love talking together in the car, an hour
or two seems like a blink of an eye. But for mom and dad worrying about
what’s going on out in that car, an hour or two seems like eternity!
The Psalmist also tells us to number our days so that we will develop
a heart of wisdom. A few years ago, People Magazine published
an article entitled "Dead Ahead" telling about a new clock
that keeps track of how much time you have left to live. It calculates
an average life span of 75 years for men and 80 years for women. So
you program your sex and age into the clock, and from then on it will
tell you how much time you have left. It sold for $99.95. I didn’t
buy one. But it is an intriguing idea. In fact, that’s what the
Psalmist told us to do--to number our days. So if I live to be 75 years
old, I have about 8,879 days left to live. That’s all, just 8,879
days left to live. But wait a minute. I don’t have a guarantee
of even one day more to live. In fact the Bible tells us not to count
on tomorrow because tomorrow may not come for you or for me. All we
have is right now, making our time on this earth so valuable because
it is very limited.
You may have heard the story about a girl who went to college and she
just hated it. But she told herself, "If I can ever get out of
college, get married and have children, I know I’ll finally be
able to enjoy life." So she stuck with it. She went to classes
every day and finally graduated from college. Then she got married,
had children, and discovered that children are a lot of work. So she
told herself, "If I can just get these kids raised, then I’ll
be able to relax and really enjoy life."
But about the time the kids were entering high school, her husband said,
"Guess what? We don’t have enough money to send our kids
to college. I guess you’ll have to get a job." Well, she
didn’t want to, but she knew he was right, so she went to work.
And she hated it. But she told herself, "If I can just get these
kids out of college and get all of the bills paid, then I can quit work
and really enjoy life."
Finally, the last child graduated from college and all the bills were
paid, so she walked into her employer’s office and said, "I
quit." He said, "Oh, you don’t want to quit now. If
you stay with us just another 8 years you’ll have a pension for
the rest of your life." She thought, "Well, I don’t
want to work another 8 years, but there’s all that money there,
and I really can’t turn down the opportunity." So she worked
for another 8 years. Finally, she and her husband retired at the same
time. They sold their home and bought a little retirement cottage. Then
they sat down on the swing on their front porch and looked at the family
picture album and dreamed about the good old days.
Someone said, "Life is what happens to you while you’re making
plans to do something else." True, isn’t it? Another year
has come and gone. A New Year stretches before us. Help us Lord, to
seek your will and to redeem the time.
HAVE A GREAT NEW YEAR!
Rod
(DECEMBER)
Who Started This, Anyway?

Bah, humbug! I have to
admit that I’m somewhat of a “Scrooge” at this time
of year. Oh, I enjoy Christmas when it finally gets here, but all that
light-hanging, bell-ringing, gift-wrapping, and credit buying can pretty
well quench my spirit at times.
Compounding my attitude is the idea that Christ should be taken out
of Christmas by many of our retailers and our schools. The very One
whose birth we celebrate is slowly but surely being phased out of the
holiday brought about by His coming to earth!
Like all of you, I enjoy giving and receiving gifts, time with family,
and bringing joy to celebrate the birth of Christ. But I pray that as
we all go through the motions of this most wonderful time of the year,
that we don’t forget the most important item on our list. It reminds
me of this story…
A woman was out Christmas
shopping with her two children. After many hours of looking at row after
row of toys and everything else imaginable; and after hours of hearing
both her children asking for everything they saw on those many shelves,
she finally made it to the elevator with her two kids.
She was feeling what so many of us feel during the holiday season time
of the year. Overwhelming pressure to go to every party, every housewarming,
taste all the holiday food and treats, getting that perfect gift for
every single person on our shopping list, making sure we don't forget
anyone on our card list, and the pressure of making sure we respond
to everyone who sent us a card.
Finally the elevator doors opened and there was already a crowd in the
car. She pushed her way into the car and dragged her two kids in with
her and all the bags of stuff. When the doors closed she couldn’t
take it anymore and stated, "Whoever started this whole Christmas
thing should be found, strung up and shot." From the back of the
elevator, everyone heard a quiet calm voice respond, "Don't worry,
we already crucified Him." For the rest of the trip down the elevator
it was so quiet you could have heard a pin drop.
Don't forget this year to keep the One
who started this whole Christmas thing in your every thought, deed,
purchase, and word. If we all did it, just think of how different this
whole world would be!
Because I care,
Rod
(NOVEMBER)
God’s World.Wide.Web

It
seems that at this time of year, we make a strong emphasis on being
thankful. Now, that’s good, but it’s somewhat sad that we
tend to stuff ourselves and spend the remainder of the day feeling miserable
all in the name of being thankful. Having a holiday set aside to give
thanks is great, and it prompts us to remember the bountiful blessings
that God has provided, but there is another annual event that has been
more prominent in making me feel particularly blessed.
For the last 14 years or so, God has put on my heart the need to help
those who haven’t had it quite as “cushy” as I have
for most of my life. Traveling south of the border for a week of visiting,
encouraging, and doing benevolent work has made me realize how truly
fortunate I am to have adequate provisions and to have been raised in
a Christian home. If you haven’t been able to be involved in such
a mission trip, I hope that you will give much thought and prayer about
“GETTING YOUR FEET WET” with some personal mission work.
You possibly have concerns, and I admit that I have had reservations
from year to year about going, and often almost talked myself out of
it. I ask myself: Can I afford it this year? Isn’t it too dangerous
at this time? Will my going really make any difference? What if I have
an accident or need medical attention? Why should I take my time for
this when no one ever helps me? I guess those are all legitimate concerns,
but do I ask myself those same questions when I’m planning a vacation
or wanting to attend some event?
All I can tell you is that God has always taken care of me, and He always
provides a way. Sometimes we don’t see the way God works, but
if you make your concerns a matter of prayer, and continue to trust
in Him, you’ll be amazed as His plan unfolds. While standing at
the edge of the Red Sea, Moses told the people in Exodus 14:13 "Do
not be afraid. Stand firm and you will see the deliverance the Lord
will bring you today.” Too many times we don’t see God’s
plan because it’s not the way we envisioned it!
During World War II, a US marine was separated from his unit on a Pacific
island. The fighting had been intense, and in the smoke and the crossfire
he had lost touch with his comrades. Alone in the jungle, he could hear
enemy soldiers coming in his direction. Scrambling for cover, he found
his way up a high ridge to several small caves in the rock. Quickly
he crawled inside one of the caves. Although safe for the moment, he
realized that once the enemy soldiers looking for him swept up the ridge,
they would quickly search all the caves and he would be killed.
As he waited, he prayed, “Oh Lord, if it be your will, please
protect me. Whatever your will though, I love you and trust you. Amen.”
After praying, he lay quietly listening to the enemy begin to draw close.
He thought, “Oh well, I guess the Lord isn't going to help me
out of this one.” Then he noticed a spider crawling along the
ground, but suppressed the urge to smash it with his boot. The spider
crawled toward the entrance and began to build a web over the front
of his cave. As he watched, listening to the enemy searching for him
all the while, the spider layered strand after strand of web across
the opening of the cave. Hah, he thought. What I need is a brick wall
and what the Lord has sent me is a spider web. God does have a sense
of humor!
As the enemy drew closer he watched from the darkness of his hideout
and could see them searching one cave after another. As they came to
his, he got ready to make his last stand. To his amazement, however,
after glancing in the direction of his cave, they moved on. Suddenly,
he realized that with the spider web over the entrance, his cave looked
as if no one had entered for quite a while. “Oh Lord, forgive
me,” prayed the young man. “I had forgotten that in You
a spider's web is stronger than a brick wall!”
As you remember with gratitude during the coming season of Thanksgiving,
don’t fail to see and acknowledge the little things in your life
that come from Him. And don’t be too quick to smash what God may
be doing, and don’t lose faith and give up. And remember that
if God can use a scary, hairy creature to accomplish His purpose, He
might even be able to use YOU!
Please keep OPERATION:CARE in prayer, and prepare to join the affair.
I dare!
Because I care,
Rod
(OCTOBER)
Brightly Burning or
Dimly Darkening?
A member of a certain
church, who previously hadbeen attending services regularly, stopped
going. After a few weeks, the pastor decided to visit him. Itwas a chilly
evening. The pastor found the man at home alone, sitting before a blazing
fire.
Guessing the reason for his pastor's visit, the man welcomed him, led
him to a big chair near the fireplace and waited. The pastor made himself
comfortable but said nothing. In the grave silence, he contemplated
the play of the flames around the burning logs. After some minutes,
the pastor took the fire tongs, carefully picked up a brightly burning
ember and placed it to one side of the hearth all alone. Then he sat
back in his chair, still silent. The host watched all this in quiet
fascination. As the one lone ember's flame diminished, there was a momentary
glow and then its fire was no more. Soon it was cold and "dead
as a doornail." Not a word had been spoken since the initial greeting.
Just before the pastor was ready to leave, he picked up the cold, dead
ember and placed it back in the middle of the fire. Immediately it began
to glow once more with the light and warmth of the burning coals around
it. As the pastor reached the door to leave, his host said, "Thank
you so much for your visit and especially for the fiery sermon. I shall
be back in church next Sunday!"
The writer of Hebrews says in chapter 10, verses 24-25, “And let
us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds.
Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing,
but let us encourage one another—and all the more as you see the
Day approaching.”
I’m afraid that I can
see some dying embers among those of you who are reading this. You’ve
removed yourself from the warmth and glow of the fellowship, and you
are continuing to darken and die out. You may feel that you can maintain
a fire in your spiritual life without the encouragement of others. And
maybe you can—for a short while. But, the result of being apart
from the fire will ultimately be a darkening and then extinction.
God has given the church to us to keep us fiery and impassioned as we
work together for the kingdom. The church wasn’t man’s idea,
but God’s provision to keep us warm and glowing. It’s not
just a place to come occasionally when it’s convenient, and hope
that everything has been taken care of while you were away. God wants
you to be ablaze!—not just a smoldering, dying ember. Paul tells
Timothy in his second letter “I remind you to fan into flame the
gift of God, which is in you…”
Here’s my challenge—how about making a REAL commitment to
the Lord—like the ones you make to the other activities you involve
yourself and your family in. You know, the events that you would not
miss for the world! How about putting worship to your creator, service
to His church, and fellowship with His people on that priority list.
If your fire’s been fading, it will raise your temperature to
ignition again!
Because I care,
Rod
(SEPTEMBER)
SOUL SURVIVAL
I just realized, I’m
a survivor! I beat the odds, stared death in the face, and it’s
almost a miracle that I’m still alive! No, I didn’t bungi
jump or skydive this past week. I didn’t brave a commercial flight,
drive in rush hour traffic, or get called to substitute teach. I’ve
just been thinking back on all the strange things I did and all the
chances I took while growing up, and it’s a wonder that my friends
and I are here to talk about it.
We use to play outside a lot, talk about dangerous! We would sometimes
leave home in the morning, pack a sack lunch, and play all day, as long
as we were back before dark. No one could reach us because we didn’t
have a cell phone or pager. We drank our water straight from the tap,
sometimes even from the garden hose, and we were even known to share
a soft drink from one bottle among several friends. I can’t believe
we made it!
At school, we played the deadly game “dodge ball’, and sometimes
the ball would kinda hurt. We got over it. We climbed trees, built tree
houses all by ourselves, and walked all over town with our BB guns shooting
sparrows. It doesn’t seem that we put them on the endangered species
list, but how did we survive prosecution and injury?
I remember riding in the back of Dad’s pickup truck on warm days.
He even let me ride my bike without a helmet. I didn’t realize
he was so abusive. And he broke a wooden ruler on my posterior once.
I should have called DHS. I can’t believe I’m still alive!
(but believe me, I still remember that, and I didn’t repeat the
behavior that brought it on.)
There were no childproof caps on our medicine, and no warnings on coffee
cups that the coffee was hot. I suppose someone was irresponsible there.
I should look into the statute of limitations on lawsuits. And how did
I ever survive without public education until I was six years old. Yes,
I am a living miracle.
Please forgive my reminiscing and negative outlook today. I realize
that you probably read this column for some spiritual guidance, positive
reinforcing, or some uplifting thoughts. My intent today, though, is
to challenge you to make some changes to better this world before it
is totally void of common sense and moral compass. We call dirty pictures
“art”, dirty jokes “comedy”, and unborn babies
“a choice”. All the while, full-time moms are called “unfulfilled”
and anyone having Christian values is called a “fanatical freak”.
We accept two daddies or mommies as normal, and God’s sacred institution
of marriage as an old-fashioned joke. I just see the scene described
in the first chapter of Romans becoming reality more each day. Paul
describes a generation who neither glorified nor gave thanks to God.
Their thinking became futile, they exchanged the truth of God for a
lie, and although they claimed to be wise, they became fools.
The time is now to take measures to save the next generation. I am not
against safeguards for our children and reasonable protection, but we
have exceeded sensible and practical behavior. We go overboard in some
areas of supervision, and are totally void in others. We make up for
our problems by appropriating funds to treat the consequences, instead
of trying to halt the perversion. It is time to seek God’s Word
for answers instead of the noisy pagan minority. And it’s time
for parents to set some guidelines for moral and social behavior. I
am embarrassed and appalled at what is allowed as appropriate dress
and conduct in public today, and I’m not just talking about California
or New York, but right here. The reflection of a deteriorating society
is blatantly evident, and equally apparent is that humanistic methods
are simply not effective. If people are falling off a cliff at the rate
of 100 an hour, it’s not enough to provide a sufficient number
of ambulances at the bottom. It’s time to build a fence at the
top!

I’m thankful that I had a dad and a mom, and that one or both
were home, and that they were watching my behavior more than I knew.
I’m thankful for the discipline and the examples my parents set
for me. I’m thankful they stressed the importance of worshiping
God and meeting together regularly with believers for encouragement.
I’m thankful they sent me to church camp instead of sports camp.
I’m even thankful for the times they said “NO” and
didn’t try to win my favor with an alternate bribe. My challenge
to you is to take a stand to strengthen your family with some good Christian
values. If we don’t, I have some real doubts about there being
any survivors.
Because I care,
Rod
(AUGUST)
CHOOSE YOUR PATH...
A young woman went to
her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for
her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give
up. She was tired of fighting
and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose.
Her mother took her to
the kitchen. She filled three pots with water. In the first, she placed
carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground
coffee beans. She let them sit and boil without saying a word. In about
twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out
and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in
a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl. Turning
to her daughter, she asked, "Tell me what do you see?"
"Carrots, eggs, and
coffee," she replied. She brought her closer and asked her to feel
the carrots. She did and noted that they had gotten soft. She then asked
her to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed
the hard-boiled egg. Finally, she asked her to sip the coffee. The daughter
smiled as she tasted its rich aroma, and then asked, "What's the
point, Mother?"
Her mother explained that
each of these objects had faced the same adversity - boiling water -
but each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard and unrelenting.
However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and
became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected
its liquid interior. But, after sitting through the boiling water, its
inside became hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique, however.
After they were in the boiling water they had changed the water.
"Which are you?"
she asked her daughter. "When adversity knocks on your door, how
do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?" Think
of this: Which am I?
Am I the carrot that seems
strong, but with pain and adversity, do I wilt and become soft and lose
my strength?
Am I the egg that starts
with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid
spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other
trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look the same,
but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and a hardened
heart?
Or am I like the coffee
bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance
that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance
and flavor..
If you are like the bean,
when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation
around you. When the hours are the darkest and trials are their greatest,
do you elevate to another level? How do you handle adversity?
James reminds us in the
first chapter and verse 2 “Consider it pure joy, my brothers,
whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing
of your faith develops perseverance.”
It is said that 10% of
life is what happens to us, and 90% in how we react. How’s your
reaction? How’s your response? Are you going to sit around being
a vegetable, a hard-boiled egg, or are you going to wake up and smell
the coffee?
Because I care,

Rod